Mediation can be a very long and trying process. We recommend coming prepared with a notebook and writing tool. This way, you can jot down any questions that come up or any notes/information that may become relevant.
If you're in mediation, for whatever reason that may be, it may cause clients to become emotional. Some clients bring a package of tissues, a bottle of water, a little snack, a stress ball, etc. A drastic change in emotions can cause physical changes in the human body, such as sudden blood sugar or blood pressure changes. Having the mentioned items can be very helpful should an issue arise.
*we do have items in office in the event clients are in need, sometimes clients have personal preferences
A lot of times; going through this process can make you feel very isolated and alone. If you have a friend or two, or a couple of family members to lean on, having any support is beneficial. If you do not find you have support at home, we can recommend professionals within the community that can provide support to you.
It is very strongly suggested that all children be shielded from family law and conflict between parents. Children deserve to be children and grow up with as minimal amount of stress as possible. In most circumstances, children love both their parents equally and should always be encouraged to continue loving both parents equally. Unless your child is being referred to us for clinical services, they should remain uninvolved at all times.
It is always very highly recommended that you obtain legal advice of your own, separate from that of the other party. We recommend that you obtain legal advice prior to coming to any sort of final agreement. If you are in need of a lawyer, we can provide a list of local lawyers that practice family law.
In order to be successful in mediation, it's important to keep calm and keep your personal feelings toward the other party out of the way. While, we know that this is easier said than done, most times hostility leads to limited success. If you need a break, please let staff know.
This is no such thing as a dumb question surrounding the topic of family law. This is a lot for some people to take in and it can be a very confusing and overwhelming situation to find yourself in. Always ask questions. If we cannot provide you with accurate answers to your question(s), we will point you in the direction of someone who can.
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